The Irish proverb, “Better to be a man of character than a man of means.” is well stated by a people who knew the anguish of very little means.

The most important pursuit in my life is to raise good people.  The most powerful gift I can give to the world is  good people.  The greatest earthly blessing I enjoy is good people.  Quality character, the moral excellence and fortitude that extends far deeper than good behavior, is foundational to any worthwhile success and happiness.

First encounters with morality lie in the manner we are treated as infants and our awareness expands as we process what others value and what is expected of us. The often unspoken reasons that guide these actions and emotions are the fabric of character. 

Openly discussing the benefits, pitfalls and true nature of different motives and reasonings can bring the mechanics of impulse to a more conscious, controllable state.  It can also save our young ones so much time trying to unravel the more meaningful lessons in life.  Frequently, these conversations also bring to account our own inconsistencies, an important test of our true character and proceeding example.  (Ouch, I know!)

Challenging oneself to be better, to rise to the occasion, to refuse one’s own excuses, to lend a hand, to humbly admit wrong, to be a part of or create something bigger than oneself…these are simple, powerful actions that can persuade the heart to see more and be more.  It is in the little things, the everyday minutia and the trifling attitudes, that we practice our beliefs and fortify our character.  If we set the bar high and help one another to rise above, then humility, confidence and consideration will follow in healthy balance.